Anaïs Nin and Henry Miller whiled away many an evening debating their top 20 tips:
see mine below…
You’re never too old to write (or read) erotica
There’s a fetish for everything
Cultivate characters’ individuality and inner charm
Men are optional
Hats are optional (especially at orgies)
Helmets work best in size extra-large
Aliens like sex
So do sea monsters
So do dinosaurs
So does Bigfoot
Tied up ticklings can be titillating
There’s more to erotic fiction than romance
The tongue can be mightier than the sword
Tangos can be for more than two
Temper pleasure with pain
Wield words with the care of an artist’s brush
An unexpected perspective can prove thrilling
It’s good to innovate
Inspire playful urges
Render the reader lightheaded with arousal
We all like to be shocked (just a bit)
Happy writing (and reading)
See how I do it here…